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The Right Time For Sex

Despite the enormous benefits of sex, there is a set time for it.

The Bible says in Ecclesiastes 3; 1-8. There is a time for everything. When that time has not come nothing look good and beautiful. But when the time comes it is good and beautiful.

He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end-Eccl 3:11

And the only time sex is permitted is when you are married.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge-Heb 13:4

Any sex outside marriage is a sin, is wrong and God will judge. Don’t have sex before marriage, it attract the demons upon such a person and brings destruction in the person life. Are you involve in premarital sex, stop it now. It has destroyed lot of destinies, don’t add yourself. Desist from it at all cost. God time is the best. And God time is in marriage.

Many adult of marriageable age are still single. It is not good for them, except God has called them into celibacy. What will a man of 40 years or woman of 30 years doing being single. Money should not be a problem, God is interested in your been married.

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Ask God to give you money and your life partner. I believe there is another person of the opposite sex, out there also praying the same prayer you are praying. Ask God to connect the two of you now.

Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you- Matt 7:7

I beg all those of marriageable age reading this book to get married now. God grace is sufficient to help you. I am praying for you now. If you delay satan might use it against you. Lust might set in.

Desire for sex in a marriageable age is another indicator that you need sex. You should get married. That is to say an adolescent have no business desiring sex in that age.

In God’s eye, the person is not mature. However God created the desire for sex inside us. Apostle Paul in I Corinthians 7;1-9.encourage Christian to marry to avoid fornication. We are not firewood, we are flesh and blood, and we have natural desires for sex, we desires to be loved and to give love.

God is not anti-sex; He is the one that created sex. He has given rules on when to have sex. The rules are found in the Bible- the creator manual for the creature. We all know the importance of rules. Imagine a game without rules, it might get nasty.

Take a football game for an example if everybody uses hand to score goals it might not be so exciting. Rules protect the game and make it enjoyable to watch and play. So it is with sex our God has set the time for sex and is in marriage.

Though society and tradition has made the marriage ceremony expensive but with the consent of your partner you can decide to make it simple and cheap. Delay can cause anxiety and pressure in sex desires. Just have witness to your marriage and let it hold if you can not do the big society wedding.

Marriage is sealed in God’s eyes when the two parties are involved in a sexual intercourse. That is why God said the bed should be undefiled before marriage.

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