Gone were the days when virginity was held in high esteem. Today if a mature person says he or she is a virgin he or she might be laugh to scorn. You will look upon as a timid or uncivilized person. People who are virgin are ashamed to say it in public for fear of being looked down.
Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart
The only way to avoid all these problems is to avoid premarital sex. Sex Education has encouraged preventive measures like using of condom, but statistics has shown that condom has failed in stopping dangers in illicit sex. Cases where condom linkage and tire has been reported, condom cannot stop the passage of demons in sexual intercourse.
There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death
I will try to categories the dangers of premarital sex into two broad categories, the spiritual and the general effects.
THE SPIRITUAL EFFECTS
The spirit world is not seen with the physical eyes but their actions are felt. The spirit world controls the physical world. Before anything come to manifestation in the physical world it was first concluded in the spirit world. To see the spirit world we use the eyes of our heart, our imaginations, visions, pictures and dreams. The spirit world is an active world. We are all spirit as spirit we live in a body and we have a soul. The spirit part our being can see into the spirit world and relate with it well. Let me give you an example, if we want to build a house the builder would first see a picture of what he want to build and draw it in a paper that is he seeing into world of the spirit to bring the house into existence. That is how simple the world can be described.
God will judge all those involve in the sin of fornication. No fornicator will enter into the kingdom of God.
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind.
5 Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:
6 For which things’ sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience
In Bible times under the law anybody caught in premarital sex is worthy of death. Deuteronomy 22:13-21. The person caught in the act of fornication is stone to death.
Before the Law of Moses fornicators are burnt to death. Gen 38:24. This was seen in the case of Tamar the widow who was found with pregnancy the people were about to stone her to death before it was discovered that Judah was responsible of her pregnancy.
In the early church fornicators were excommunicated from the church. 1 corinth 5:1-12.
The sin of fornication was the only reason a man is permitted to divorce his married wife not adultery. If a man discovered in the night of marriage that his wife is not a virgin he has every right biblically speaking to divorce his wife. Only on the ground of fornication can divorce be granted. Jesus speaking in Matthew 5:32.
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
The sin of fornication is a very serious sin just like any other sin. Every other sin affects not the body but only the sin of fornication.
2. THE SIN OF FORNICATION BRINGS MORE SIN.
3. IT CREATES AN UNGODLY SOUL TIE.
Sex is not just a casual fun thing as most people think and take it to be. It is much more than that, it involves blood. The Bible says life is in the blood.
For it is the life of all flesh; the blood of it is for the life thereof: therefore I said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall eat the blood of no manner of flesh: for the life of all flesh is the blood thereof: whosoever eateth it shall be cut off.
When you have sex with a person you have given a part of your life to that person and in return the person has given you part of his life in the spirit realm. In the spirit realm the two of you have become one. You start to share things in common. That is why diseases, sickness, demons and many things pass through during sexual intercourse. In addition you have just created a soul tie between you and the person involved.
In Genesis 34 Shechem the prince of land of Hivite committed fornication with Dinah the daughter of Jacob. The soul of Shechem clave unto Dinah, first it was lust, then came love yet it was ungodly.
4. IT FRAGMENTIZE YOUR SOUL.
1 Cor 6:16
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
12:1 Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them
6. IT PASSES DEMONS TO YOUR GENERATIONS.
4 Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth:
5 Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the LORD thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me
Please do not allow the pleasure of 5 minutes enjoyment to destroy you and your unborn generations. Moses chose to suffer with the Israelites than to enjoy the pleasures of sin with the Egyptians.
By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter
25 Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season.
7. YOU SIN AGAINST YOUR OWN BODY.
1 Cor 6:18
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body
1 John 4:7
7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
1 Cor 13:4-8
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away
A person that demand sex before marriage only wants to satisfy his/her desires to satisfy a lust. He wants immediate gratification and may not care about the future. Many engagements planned for marriage have been called up after they involved in sexual intercourse. The man or woman only wants the other person’s body and not commitment. Be wise. Be sensitive. Look out for the devil sometimes he comes in sheep clothing. His mission is to destroy the blessing God has given you. In 2 Samuel 13:12-14. Amnon lust over Tamar he deceives their father David and slept with Tamar he later discovered that what felt was lust not love. There are many young men out there with the spirit of Amnon who deceive women to bed only to abandon them after getting what they want .SEX. Sex is for life. Marriage is for life.
OTHER DANGERS OF PREMARITAL SEX
9. PREMATURE PARENTHOOD.
1 Cor 10:8
Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed, and fell in one day three and twenty thousand
Today the price of fornication is still very high. The truth is that the prize is still death. Aids is a life threatening disease and many other sexually transmitted diseases. Demons enter into people to kill steal and destroy the gifts, talents and blessings of God.
11. IT MAKES YOU MARRY THE WRONG PERSON.